I think I'm finally back in the game. My poor shoulder feels SOOO much better than it was feeling and I have a bit more stable in using my arm from the elbow down. Check up is this week so I can get it looked at and see if it's healed enough to start using it again. If it IS, I'm limited in some of the things I can do temporarily BUT it's a start in the right direction.
So today I'm thinking about how much small gestures can make a difference in someone's day. I'm a big believer in doing things for people, even if it's something that seems small and ridiculous to you. While a lot of these apply to things I do with my kids, there's also something to be said for doing them for adults too....
One More Hug This one is actually one that I LOVE receiving myself...one more hug/kiss. Because life is unpredictable, I'm a firm believer in giving as many hugs and kisses as you can.
"I got you your favorite" I'm infamous for getting or making favorite treats for my loved ones whether it's a popsicle or a favorite meal like lasagna. It seems like a small gesture but it's really a show of appreciation for someone being in my life.
Sitting through a movie you loathe Okay "loathe" might be an exaggeration but we've all done it, especially for our kids. Sitting through a movie you're not even a little interested in just to make them happy.
Dropping everything for them Sometimes it's impossible but there are a lot of times that what we're doing is not essential so much as just convenient prioritizing. Being able to drop everything for the important people in your life is a huge show of love.
and finally.....
Encouragement This sounds small and a strange thing that we overlook but the truth is that encouraging someone, even in the smallest moments, can make a world of difference in their day. Just letting them know how much they're loved and appreciated makes all the difference.
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