1. Let him be right and win the argument....even if he's not right If he's not arguing the theory of relativity or something of dire importance, just let him be the one who's "right." It'll soothe his ego and help you exercise being the bigger person.
2. Stop using the word "ok" in that negative tone You'd think that women would outgrow this habit after they stop being teenagers but it seems that this is still a huge thing for us. We get into a debate and finally just say, "Okay"......but you say it in that tone that says "I'm still right and you're wrong." Knock it off.
3. Once in awhile, don't have a headache Yes you! You know what I'm talking about. You're fine and dandy to talk his ear off but then when he wants a little intimacy, it's "I have a headache...I'm too tired." Once in awhile, let HIM have his way. I know...crazy, right?
4. Fix him bacon....and burgers.....and other fatty goodness As women, we have a tendency to lecture on health and cholesterol but give him the chance to be a guy and eat a whole plate of hot wings if he wants. No, I'm not suggesting that he get to do it every day but there is a healthy balance. Don't make him share...let him be pampered.
5. Give him the house to himself for a day No kids....no responsibility.
6. Tell him how wonderful and how sexy he is There has to be a reason you got with him. Stop criticizing and remind yourself AND him of how wonderful he is. The grass may be greener on the other side but it still needs mowed.
7. Cheer for him on his Madden game...even if you could care less Yes, I'm suggesting you show interest in something that doesn't really interest you (though it DOES interest me). If his video games are his hobby, let him play...and encourage him. It's good for refresh time for him :)
8. Let him snore Unless it's a health thing, stop trying to change HIS natural habit and change your coping habits. I'll bet you have some sleepy time habits too...ahem, BLANKET HOG. If he's shaking the walls, it's okay to take a stand but if it's a gentle roar, suck it up buttercup!
9. Surprise him with a six pack Or if beer's not his thing, surprise him with soda...or whatever else trips his trigger. Surprise him with a gift that says, "I care about your relaxation."
10. Don't make a big deal over small stuff Yes, his socks on the floor of the living room are gross but so is your hair in the drain and I'm sure he doesn't pinch a tizzy every time he has to snake the drain. Pick your battles and stop being a queen over the small stuff.
11. Get yourself dolled up for a night out with him Be his eye candy for a night. We're all guilty of the ponytail and no makeup spells and have that right, as women (and moms for some of us). Get yourself all dolled up and go out on the town.
12. Victoria's Secret....or Fredericks of Hollywood....or Fascinations.....or Yumdrop.....nuff said.
13. Be nice to his mom Yep, it doesn't matter whether their relationship is good, bad or somewhere in between...be nice. Look for her good points instead of criticizing (even if that's what she does to you). I don't care if she's old fashioned, trying to be a hip mom, etc. Be nice!
14. Guys night out.... Yup, I'm saying it. Hopefully your guy will be intelligent enough to not act a complete fool so it's easier for you to encourage it but go for it.. give him a night out with the guys. He needs it.
15. High heels Guys don't always admit it but most of them think high heels are sexy...no matter what they're paired with.
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